This is when a predator builds trust and emotional connection with a child so they can trick and exploit them. This can be done by an adult or another child or teen. Grooming can happen online or in-person.
Prevention
Talk about it:
- Explain that someone who cares for them would never trick or pressure them into sending sexual images and videos.
- It is very easy to lie about who you are online – encourage them to only be online friends with people they know in real life.
Set Expectations:
- Explain that nude images and sexual videos are child pornography. This is illegal and these items should never be sent to anyone.
- Remind them to talk to a trusted adult if they are scared or unsure what to do.
Warning Signs
Often, a grooming victim doesn’t realize they are being abused. The attention may make the victim feel special and unwilling to seek help. This is why it is so important to watch out for warning signs.
- Changes in behaviour, school attendance, and hygiene level.
- Knowledge about things that aren’t age appropriate.
- Isolation, avoidance of social situations, and secrecy.
- Multiple accounts on apps and websites.
- Substance abuse.
Take Action
If you think a child you know may be a victim of grooming, contact your local police. Find more resources about this important subject here.
